The other day I went to Our Community Place to have a conversation with Ron Copeland, the director/founder/manager of the organization. The goal of the conversation was to learn a little bit about the philosophy of Our Community Place, the original intent of the program, and prospects of the future. The chat, however, reached a level of deepness that I never expected. Socialism, drug abuse, Christianity, welfare, Mother Teresa, Irresistible Revolutions, The Vietnam War, Gandhi, capitalism and King were just some of the topics that this conversation addressed. It is hard to capture the essence of the exchanged dialogue in a blog post, and it almost seems that if I were even to try, I would ruin it. As a result, for the purpose of this blog post, I will reference the points that were apart of the original intent of the conversation: philosophy, past, future.
Ron said that over a decade ago, he had an idea that involved “catching the vision of a community center that offered help to people on the margins of society, no strings attached.” As we were sitting outside on a picnic table in the front yard of Our Community Place, we could see people from all walks of life kicking soccer balls around, playing volleyball, chasing a dog, and fixing bikes. “Well, this is actually what I pictured,” Ron said.
Now, Our Community Place helps, as Ron mentioned, people who are on the margins of society. “Usually people describe the kind of people who come here as people who have ‘made poor choices’ but that is not why they are here. Almost everyone who is said to have ‘made poor choices’ because of being homeless or having addiction problems come from difficult backgrounds and have experienced abuse and neglect,” he remarked. It is great for the people to be able to come to OCP to get assistance with anything they would need. “But,” he continued, “it’s not just about rehabilitation; its about getting these people who are lonely and maybe morally corrupt involved with the community.” It goes back to the old saying: give a man a fish, he’ll eat for the day; teach a man to fish and he’ll eat for a lifetime. In that context, OCP teaches these people how to get back in the community, not just provide a quick fix. Ron stated that “after awhile, these people will get it, get plugged back in, and become appreciated” which is exactly what they need that many of them have never gotten before.
He went on to explain that usually when an organization gets people like the people who come to OCP, they construct a lot of rules for living so the people can learn to live in a world full of rules. The people at OCP are the kind who are used to being controlled, being told what to do, and being forced to do it. “But that doesn’t work,” Ron said, “and neither does welfare, neither extreme works. What works is loving others more than yourself and loving the community” and leading by example. He used an example that had happened earlier that day. He said that he went outside to pick up a few things, and people at OCP just started following him and picking up trash as well. What started as him going outside to pick up a few peices of trash turned into a massive project. He said that someone “doesn’t have to be agressive” in order to reach success. Ron also mentioned that life could not have to many rules either. “People need to be flexible and go like the wind. Liberal atheist vegans have great intentions, but with that label come too many rules to follow. When someone is so bogged down on following the rules, they forget the poor.”
Looking out at the yard, he became very happy to see a young Iraqi kid playing a game of soccer with a young adult who grew up with out a father and lived a hard life in and out of trouble. “When something like this happens, it creates a space to work towards a positive life.”
While Our Community Place currently does not have any specific religious affiliation, he has been struggling with the thought process of a Christian affiliation. He said he would never “hold food over somebodies head” and make them believe the Gospels, and he is not into the idea of saving souls or planting his own beliefs in someone else’s head. He does, however, believe that it takes a “true Christian heart to be willing to forgive people who have wronged you and the community over and over again” and to surpass the idea of punishing people for what they have done and accept the idea of unconditional love.